It's time to break the silence

You've been playing the part. Being the woman you're expected to be.

Accommodating, giving, agreeable. Always saying Yes to requests of you. Keeping the peace.

You've kept silent in order to not make waves.

You've played at "easy going" because that seemed like the easiest thing to do. The path of least resistance.

You've agreed to things you didn't really want to do because you didn't want to disappoint someone.

And you've begun to lose trust in that voice inside you, instead looking outside for answers.

You're exhausted, longing to make time for yourself. Wanting to say no without it feeling unkind to do so.

You've been hearing a whisper from inside, reminding you that you aren't the part you've been playing.

A whispering voice that longs to be free.


To speak up for what you want and need.

To say a kind no to the things you don't.

To make space for the things most important to you

Yourself, Family, Friends, YOUR Joy.

You can be supportive and kind without over committing yourself.

You will still have energy to give to others if you give first to yourself (maybe even more energy!)


You are worthy of care, rest, joy, and your dreams. And you can trust that whisper.

You can build stronger boundaries, have more space for yourself, and experience more energy and patience to give to others.

All while fully embracing who you truly are.

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I am Kim K Gray and I am here to journey with you towards confident self-expression. 

To walk alongside you as you move away from people pleasing, from being the "good girl" to being a more authentic expression of your divine self.

I will hold compassionate, curious, and judgement free container to support you in listening to your own voice, building trust in yourself, and creating space for your desires.

Together we will:

  • create boundaries that allow more space for YOU
  • build confidence and trust in your ability to make decisions and move towards your goals
  • tease out your voice from all the outside voices in your life
Footprints in the sand

My curiosity and compassionate space holding looks like:

  • Compassionate acceptance of where you are right now
  • Powerful questions to help you get to the heart of your needs and desires
  • Breaking down overwhelming goals into small, manageable steps
  • Supportive encouragement and celebration along the way

For you IF

  • You struggle with people pleasing and the good girl archetype
  •  You are ready for deep honesty with yourself
  •  You are willing and able to make space in your schedule for our sessions and your action steps

Not for you if

  • You are unsure whether you are ready to make changes
  • You are not ready to commit to 3 months
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Kim was just the person I need to come into my life: she knows how to ask important reflective questions, offers advice without judgement, gives the push/motivation I need, she grants me the permission to be patient with myself.  My life has changed dramatically. I'm in a much different/better place and I credit Kim with that


What you can expect from our journey together

  • We start with a 30 minute complimentary chat (based on answers you provide to a questionnaire) so I can get to know what you are hoping to accomplish and you can get to know me. This will help us decide whether we are a good fit for each other. 
  •  Next we schedule 6 video sessions up to 1 hour, over the course of 3 months (about every 2 weeks)
  • During these sessions we work together towards inspiring goals using clear action steps
  • I am available via email and Voxer between sessions for quick updates and questions
  •  We will close with our 6th session celebrating your progress. 

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Kim helped me see a long-standing issue in a different light that will guide me from here on

Robin Kimbrell Wiggs